I tend to use way more words than is actually needed to explain topics or even just “my side” because I want my readers to understand my story’s rather than grabbing a dictionary every five minutes. I am targeting all ages and people from all walks of life. If you can read then you can follow me!!! 🙂 don’t get me wrong I’d love to learn brevity some to get to the point with fewer words, but for now I’m interested in catching people’s attention and imagination. Although twitter does begin to be a handful at times, I still manage to get what I need out with the little bit of words or characters rather… I’m just glad to have the followers I have and hope to attain many more interested like minded minds and if u have any comments or suggestions please feel free. If you would like to really connect with me please feel free as well via http://about.me/ramon_prds
I was working overnight at heb at the beginning of this month and I had some friends staying at my apt. Life was good and people would normally be in and out of my place that I ordinarily didn’t know because I usually slept and worked and then slept some more…. well the first day i was introduced to this guy Christian; he is talking about throwing a big party at a hotel room with alot of females. I am not the type to party nor do I like being in a room with more than fifteen people with one thing in mind. So right off the bat I figured he wasn’t a friend of mine nor would we ever hangout because I’m not into the party seen. A few months later he started coming over but he never came empty handed. I mean this guy would have beer and other party favors for everyone. I started liking him already lol. The first couple times we hung out; he and I really didn’t communicate because we barely knew each other. At the time I just went thru a rough break up with my ex which resulted with losing touch with a beautiful 2 year old baby girl who grew to know me as daddy. Instead of criticism or taunting me he leant a ear. He would ask about her to see why, who, what, when, and where…. then he would go on to say that I needed to learn to keep my emotions out of my relationships. That I’m a smart guy with too much heart and with that being said I would always let my emotions get the best of me (which is true.) You see people had always told me I was too nice, but he went the extra mile and got into details. I will never forget our talks and now we still chit chat and I’m waiting to catch him on an off day so we can go for drinks on my tab lol and kick back. We both love working and getting out there into the world to make our mark. He is also trying to have a family, but like me we are waiting for “the one!” You know in fairytales where no matter what happens they always stay at your side. Well anyway he is a real awesome person and if you ever meet him tell him I said what’s gewd!!!
I remember as a kid getting expelled from several different elementary schools. I would see about three or four different psychiatrists and psychologists a month. I was acting out because I had so much going on in my life and being do young with the ability to understand it all didn’t help. I would continuely fight and talk back to teachers, but I always made sure I was on top of all my school work; making it hard for them to hold me back or even understand why someone so smart would be acting out in the first place. My behavior and whole train of thought didn’t change until I made it to the sixth grade. I got tired of hearing my parents and teachers tell me I wasn’t going to amount to anything if I continued this behavior. I told myself that it was time for a change and time to show everyone just how much I know and understand. All three years of middle school I believe I only got in trouble twice and both times it was self defense, but the school took one look at my record and assumed it was my fault. I knew I needed to make a stand and get out of the “hood”(so to speak). I ended up applying to a Luis W. Fox Technical and Acedemic high school’s Law Magnet program because I always loved the idea of being an attorney and because it meant I could live anywhere and still attend. I moved out on my own sophomore year at the age of 15. I then got involved with the wrong crowd and unfortunately started using drugs. I started hearing it all over again; everyone saying how I wasn’t going to make it across the stage or I was going to drop out. I especially would hear It from my father; therefore, the day I relieved my invitations and letterman I went and showed him and handed him some for his family and I passed some out to my family as well… the fact that I (a troubled child/drug user) made it through against all odds serves as a reminder that I can endure anything I put my mind to. All we have to do is want it!!!
As lay in bed, waiting for my alarm to go off, I begin picturing my days events and begin my time mangement. I start with getting ready for school, next how I’ll be walking to school and school itself, finally I start picturing my after school activities such as practice, homework and spending time being big brother/daddy/maid. Suddenly I’m interrupted my my sister rushing into the restroom. She always takes forever in there so I rush to the kitchen and immediately turn on the hot water which makes the shower cold and my sister scream. I love messing with her because that’s what older brothers do! She rushes out of the restroom and tells me I better hurry up so she can get ready. As usual I take my time and as I walk out of the restroom I see here her grunt and rush passed me. I begin making my way outside and notice that no one is around and decide it’s safe to fly to a safe walking distance from school. Oh yeah that’s right I forgot to mention I can fly but it’s just one of my many secrets that only u and I are aware of. It started when I dreamed I was flying around and woke up in mid flight. I learned that just like the power of attraction I was able to believe I could and I just take flight. Now that I am within walking distance and no one is around I begin my decent. I continue walking to school and meet up with my friends. We play basketball until the bell rings that starts our day at school. School is fun and exciting because I enjoy learning all I can to fill up my mind with different unique and exciting ideas. The end of day bell rings and I head over to the gym to begin practice for my favorite sport. I really enjoy basketball because i taught myself how to play and it really didn’t take too long to get good. After practice I head home to start assisting my sister with her homework and start cooking. After she is done we eat and start picking up and cleaning before our mom gets home and we get ready for bed. Just a typical day and i loath having to hide from everyone that i can fly but i don’t want the publicity that comes with it. I just enjoy the simple life that we have and no matter what i will keep this to myself until now. 😉
In the end- Linkin Park
This song reminds me that no matter what we do for others, they will always choose what they want to do. It’s like the saying goes, “you can lead a horse to water, nbut you can’t make them drink.” I always try to help people and guide them in the right direction but end up getting slapped or stabbed in the back. This song allows me to realize that no matter what people will always do what they want and it’s OK… It doesn’t make me give, but pushes me to keep doing what I can because to them, “in the end it doesn’t even matter,” but for me it feels great to spread the love and lend a hand to at least have them free while they were in my care.
Relaxation – zene12
This is meditation music that really has allowed me to unlock my mind and open up to the unlimited wealth health and love that is offered to us by the universe. I am able to become stress and worry free for the 12 minutes I actually listen to this music. If you made it to my page http://about.me/ramon_prds u will know my life hasn’t always been as great as it is today, but this music gave me release from it all!!
This song just explains my life after all the bad that has happened and motivates me to keep enjoying life and let go of negative because after all we only live once!!! Not all of us are rich and famous but we can be if we continue to live like we are! I will no longer have bad days because I live my life like everyday is my last and those around me know that they don’t have to worry either!!!
Hi fellow reader/blogger,
I am 23 yr old Ramon Daniel Paredes. I am currently attending Colorado Technical University and doing online Affiliate Marketing. I am preparing for my interview Wednesday at a really great company as management! I can’t wait because I know it’s my first step to actually getting the job and I always do well due to my positive and happy aura!! Please don’t let this new found self fool you!! I have been thru more than most people have in my 23 yrs here, but I’ve learned to live above it all and turn it into motivation!
I am blogging instead of keeping a personal journal because I want to motivate and inspire people to take action and start doing better in life! Everyone wants to leave a mark before they die but I just want people to see what I’m doing after all I’ve been thru and apply it to their own life! I will be blogging about the “Law of attraction” and how I’m making money online! I want people to see that anything is possible if you put your mind to it! Remember we are what we think we are and not just what people say we are!!! I learned to stop trying to be what people want me to be and ignore what is being said because I create my own future and my own emotions!! I want to connect with like minded people who also have a story behind them! People who have been through rough and difficult times, but learned like I have that we do not have to live that way! We create our own futures and If my blogging over the next year turns out well; I hope to have at least 3k+ followers with stories that I or my words helped them get thru! Let’s connect and learn from eachother! I believe that you can always learn something from someone; even if it’s what not to do! 😉
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